She said “BoB” I said "WHAT?" I have no idea. Dawn, I said I wanted to get laid after 9 years, not fall into some freaky az family zoo mess….So that was the end of that, here and then anyway. All I knew was that he drove a green minivan, was very tall and very blond. That was all I cared to know, or so I thought...A month or so went by….I still didn’t get my sex!!!! I didn’t want to do the bar thing…..there was a few prospects at work and Kendra's dad may have shown some interest again (We were only together for 2 weeks originally)…..But nothing really excited me. Dawn and her ex girlfriends granddaughter were the exact same age of 8 so on the weekends, we would go out for breakfast, shopping or just hang out, sometimes with Kim and her kids. Well, one weekend Dawn said we were going to one of Kim's boys birthday parties. I knew these two were still dangling this Bob guy as the piece of meat I've been waiting for. Well, Kendra liked hanging with the boys and the older girl Rebeca, so I said WHY NOT. We went to that party in November 2000. There was a whole TRIBE at that house, I swear. At least 40 people. Dawn told me they were all Kimmy's relatives in some way. At that point I was happy to be an only child!!!!! Well as we girls sat on the sofa, talking , eating our cake, gossiping , and watching this….this small carnival, I notice a hint of musk with a fruity after-tone drift into the room. It was an exquisite smell. I heard a mans voice, a deep, smooth sensual voice-- first speaking and then laughing and playing. The voice then ended abruptly. But the smell got closer. It was accompanied by the long strides of muscular legs attached to a 6 foot blond man seen from only across the room. He negotiated the crowded room gracefully, and walked toward the kitchen doorway. That walk was soo steady... flowing.... manly...confident.... and so damn sexy. I leaned over to Dawn and asked “WHO, was THAT?” she said that was HIM….Bob. Well he never emerged from the kitchen again until it was time for us to leave. Later, I had learned that he was wrestling with his boys and the birthday boy head-butted him and knocked 2 of his front teeth out. Well, the winter moves on, the holidays are moving closer…So we all decided to go out to Ponderosa Steak House Buffet. Of course this was another attempt by Kimmy and Dawn to get me and Bob hooked up. To this point, I really didn't even know what this man truly looked like, yet I knew I was attracted to him---a very strange and curious feeling. He has a swaggering confident walk, a head of golden locks that brush his shoulders, and he smells like he’s been harvesting cranberries from the swamp all day long. What the HELL am I getting myself into?